Love happens to follow the six rules

In Roman mythology, Cupid has been hailed as a symbol of love. He is a naughty, little body with wings of God, carrying a quiver, happy on the front who shot a "love arrow" once, and his arrow through the heart, people will be attracted to desperate love. , People often use Cupid's naughty wayward, to explain the irregular occurrence of love.

However, studies by psychologists have found that Jupiter is not so naughty as people thought, he launched the "arrow of love" is not flying blind, but follow specific rules. According to American psychologist Sharon Brehm and others concluded, the law of love, the occurrence of the following:
1. Close. Two adjacent living space is often easier to love each other. Adjacent space for each other's knowledge and contacts to provide a convenient conditions. They can pay a small price, but more easily understand and know each other. On the contrary, far distance, so that people pay more exchanges, while the lack of time spent together, but they can not increase in time to eliminate misunderstandings.


2. Looks attractive. In an interesting psychological experiment, the psychologists to the people to produce some stranger's photo, and then let them according to their own feelings, evaluation of these strangers. The results found that people generally look more attractive people rating high. Visible, it is more likely to believe: the beautiful people must also be good. Particularly vulnerable to this bias in the initial stage of interaction.
3. Each other like their own. Get along with someone, if you feel the love each other themselves, and enjoy the feeling of being accepted will improve their self-esteem, and thus more like each other; the contrary, it will feel to be denied, even if this one will have charm, his appeal is also will thus be greatly reduced. Because, and he brought us the good feeling than we are more concerned about their refusal to be bad or negative feeling.
4. Similar. There are differences of character who are more prone to get along with misunderstandings and disputes, a long conflict, will make two people are frustrated and tired; in character and attitude are more similarities between people, will be a mutual consistent and resonate. This feeling of being accepted, let them enjoy themselves more, so more and more like spending time with each other. But there is a case of "not similar" can also promote each other's feelings: a party has, just the other needs. For example, one very assertive, while the other is willing to listen to someone else's decision.
5. Obstacles. People generally are rebellious, which led to when we face the threat of losing or not, we will be more eager to get, and redouble our efforts. Psychologists have found love on the existence of "Romeo and Juliet effect": when the outside world, especially parents, the more strongly opposed to two people love each other's eyes the more they have a more attractive, so The two parties can feel a strong love for each other.
6. Quality. In addition to the above conditions, regardless of background, age or gender differences, most people believe that lovers need to have three important conditions are: the warm kindness, good character, accept and respond to their feelings.